I’ll probably never know the kind of parade that a returning victorious athletic team gets or the key-to-the-city feeling that some hero receives or the banner-crazed airport reception that a politician enjoys.
But more and more, I am thinking about a welcome-home party in heaven. There are probably many reasons for this.
First, I’m getting older which means that I’m getting closer to that appointment. I’m not rushing it nor am I a morose person by nature. But when medical visits start crowding your calendar, the concept of mortality starts crowding your mind. I have a date with that destiny and I fully embrace the idea that it’s in the capable hands of the One who has ordained every day that I’m allowed to stay in this body.
Secondly, life has a way of reminding us that this world is not our home. There are all sorts of emotional, mental, physical, individual and corporate pain that accompany walking around this earth. It’s kind of like the boxer who prepares and can take virtually every hit. But, every once in a while, there’s pain that refuses to be ignored and it does get a bit wearisome.
But pain and death are not the only indicators that the paving contractors forgot to throw the gold in their mix when they did our streets.
There are those consistent and daily disappointments that play a big factor in this wake-up call. Sometimes, the biggest bummers come from ourself. Others let us down. Relationships splinter. Deals fall through or never materialize. Phone calls and emails, if returned, range from, “He stepped away from his desk” to “He’s out to lunch” or the tactful “Try later in the year.” Circumstances seem to have mastered quite an effective knuckleball. With every breadth, someone is asking for your money or trying to steal it. (It makes you want to fire the mailman and shut down your email account.) Hoping for change, in general, often seems like waiting for the scenes to progress in “Groundhog Day.” And putting our trust in a manmade government is as unreliable as a bad relief pitcher.
Yet, every once in a while, we get a glimpse of something that is far superior to this life we know.
It happened to me recently. I was returning from an extended road trip and I was aching to see my wife and grandchildren. The plane touched down and I was actually wondering if the little ones had grown taller or if they would be as thrilled to see me as I would be to see them or if they would have started to let their affections drift because they hadn’t seen me in so long. I guess it was a bit of the “tie-a-yellow-ribbon” syndrome.
At the risk of being a bit over-analogous, I would still submit that my bride and kids’ simple “Welcome Home” sign – complete with purple butterflies – brought me to a place that made the road trip worthwhile despite all of the ups and downs. An analogy can only be an analogy, but just sayin’…